Queerstories at Brisbane Powerhouse will be an evening of sharing. Some of Australia's finest LGBTQIA+ storytellers will tell their stories.
Hosted and developed by writer, director and performer Maeve Marsden, the event features a fresh line-up of people in the community, willing to speak out.
Here, one of them – writer Holly Zwalf, talks about gender, the word 'queer', and weddings.
I don’t believe there are only two genders. Actually I know for a fact there are more than two, that gender is fluid, and that you can’t tell if someone’s 'he' or 'she' or even 'they' just by looking at them. My friends and lovers are proof of this. Gender is how you feel inside, and I say this with the authority of someone who has a PhD in gender studies and sexuality. You can call me Dr Holly if you’d like. I’d certainly like.
Queer is my politics as well as my identity. Queer is about disrupting the norm, challenging binaries, thinking outside the box, and f...ing. F...ing the boxes. F...ing outside the boxes. F...ing up the boxes til they’re more like amorphous ether than anything resembling boxes. F...ing people with all their differently shaped and sized and differently gendered or not gendered bodies. Saying f... you to homonormativity and f... yes to f...ing with the system.
Still confused? The difference between gay and queer can best be summed up by same-sex marriage. Gays wanted marriage, while queers wanted to dismantle gender and the capitalist systems that privilege monogamous nuclear family models above all other relationships. While it still hurt me deeply, the whole marriage debate never really applied to me because my relationships aren’t exactly same-sex. And besides, while I’ve got nothing against marriage I have no desire to be just like straight people. I love living outside the margins as a rebel outlaw queer. It’s cool, it’s hot, and it’s sexy. Much sexier than frothy white wedding garb, though I suppose if you grow up not being legally allowed to do something you don’t bother wasting time daydreaming about that perfect dress. And I have to admit, in the last two years since the laws have changed I’ve been secretly doing a bit of a Muriel, and have found THE CUTEST little white number. . . f.... Did I say that out loud? Shhh. Don’t tell the queers.”